Shane Windmeyer

AT&T Gay-Friendly? Despite 100% rating on HRC's Corporate Equality Index, AT&T Denies Gay Couple Medical Leave for Partners Hospitalization

Campus Pride heads to Texas next week for the 22nd National Conference on LGBT Equality: Creating Change hosted at the Sheraton Dallas Hotel in Dallas, Texas, Feb. 3 - 7, 2010. Since 1988, Creating Change has been the nation’s pre-eminent political, leadership and skills-building conference for the LGBT social justice movement. Every year, the conference moves across the country and brings a JOLT of activism and thousands of progressive minds together. The timing could not be better frankly (or -- for AT&T it could not be worse!)

So as I was packing my bags and reading the weather reports, I ran across this bit of NEWS from the Dallas Voice titled "Partner denied sick leave by AT&T" from Jan 28, 2010. I am REALLY hoping this is not true. But, if it is, I think it's time for thousands of LGBT and ally -- progressive queers -- to make a SWITCH!

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Partner denied sick leave by ATT
By John Wright | News Editor wright@dallasvoice.com
Jan 28, 2010 - 7:14:06 PM
Despite 100% rating from HRC, company won’t allow gay man time off to care for ailing spouse


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Bryan Dickenson, left, and Bill Sugg hold hands in Sugg’s room at a rehabilitation facility in Richardson on Wednesday, Jan. 27. (John Wright/Dallas Voice)thphoto1_37.jpg

RICHARDSON — Bryan Dickenson and Bill Sugg have been together for 30 years. For the last 12 of those years, Dickenson has worked as a communications technician for Dallas-based AT&T.

There's No One Way to Be a Morehouse Man

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Posted on Advocate.com October 23, 2009

There's No One Way to Be a Morehouse Man

Why can't a Morehouse man wear a fierce pair of Jimmy Choos to class?

By Shane L. Windmeyer

View Opinion Editorial online at http://www.advocate.com/Society/Education/Theres_No_One_Way_to_Be_a_Morehouse_Man/

On The Road: Campus Pride at University of Louisiana Lafayette

I am constantly reminded when I visit colleges in the South how much work there is to be done. But I also forget how much change is happening across the nation -- even in the South.

Yesterday Campus Pride was at the University of Louisiana Lafayette. I delievered my program "What's Your Gay Point Average?" This was the first national program of its kind brought to campus -- over 200+ students attended -- not bad, huh? It was one of the many featured events during National Coming Out Month. Earlier in the day I spent time with several students and also did a workshop for the Resident Life Assistants. One of the things that I learned through the RA session is that 75% of the RAs had a family member who was LGBT and similarly 75% also had a "best friend" who was LGBT. Not surprisingly, all but a few had experienced or witnessed LGBT harassment in some form.

I share this because indeed LGBT youth are the future and change is happening. And even in the South, I find young adults who are impacted positively by "best friends" and family who are out as LGBT. This National Coming Out Day use your voice to come out to family and loved ones. Change is happening not because of politicians, athletes or celbrities coming out -- but rather our personal relationships with those we love.

Happy National Coming Out Day!

Congratulations to University of Louisiana Lafayette for a successful NCOM! Keep up your hard work! Plus, I enjoyed eating fried alligator and meeting all of you! Check out a photo from the swamp on campus -- GEAUX RAGIN CAJUNS!

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On the Road: 250+ attend Campus Pride LGBT-Friendly College Fair in Boston, MA

8726_173289635341_515595341_4162956_8295231_n_0.jpgWow! I am on a plane now, still reeling from the Campus Pride LGBT-friendly College Fair we held today in Boston, MA There were 250+ LGBT and ally high school students and their families from across the New England area in attendance.

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Personally, I want to say thank you to Friends of GLBT Youth who were co-sponsors with the fair. It was a wonderful collaboration. Thank you Shane M., Lex, Tim, Trish, Cory, Eric, Allison, Pierce and all the other amazing volunteers. Plus a special thanks to Edge News who wrote this wonderful piece the day prior (http://www.edgeboston.com/index.php?ch=news&sc=&sc2=news&sc3=&id=96940)

8726_173288255341_515595341_4162939_4589180_n_0.jpgThe Campus Pride National College Fair Program is in its third year and this was our first time in Boston. I arrived the night before and while the Red Sox lost at Fenway, we hit a GRAND SLAM today. The fair had an astounding 40 colleges from across the nation and was actually hosted in the Great Hall of the State House in Massachusetts. Talk about progressive – another example how Massachusetts is leading the way. It truly was a special event, One parent put it best in an email the week leading up to the fair:

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On The Road: National Association of College Admission Counselors, Baltimore, MD

8726_173987460341_515595341_4169357_4147447_n_1.jpg“Good Morning, Baltimore.” I arrived yesterday in Baltimore, MD. And I had to make a Hairspray Musical reference at least once. I guess this is the official start to the Campus Pride Fall travel season. Woo Hoo!

Although I am not at a college, I am attending for our first time the National Association of College Admission Counselors Conference (NACAC) hosted this year in Baltimore, MD. The theme of the conference has something to do with “crabs” – so I took a picture of one of the volunteers. Poor thing. All I could think about was Mr. Crabby Patty from the cartoon Sponge Bob Square Pants. She was a good sport and let me take a photo. Thanks!

8726_173987310341_515595341_4169356_2849488_n_0.jpgWhile this is not a LGBT conference, Campus Pride has invested time and money into doing outreach around our LGBT-Friendly Campus Climate Index (www.campusclimateindex.org). Our goal being at the conference is to make more colleges aware of the Index, our LGBT-friendly college fairs and how to best recruit openly LGBT students to their campus. Campus Pride submitted two workshops to the conference and presented one today, the other one will be tomorrow. The workshop today was in collaboration with our educational partner the Point Foundation (www.pointfoundation.org) --who is simply fabulous. Campus Pride loves working with Point Foundation. Todays workshop will hopefully be one of many more educational efforts we do together in the future.

On The Road/Water: All Aboard RSVP to Alaska

5649_1206440114559_1035354916_1484592_1470536_n_0.jpgCampus Pride has been lucky to have many wonderful donors and corporate partners/sponsors. The last few years Campus Pride has welcomed and enjoyed a partnership with RSVP Vacations to provide visibility for our work with LGBT youth. Most recently, Campus Pride did a national give-away for a “Free RSVP Cruise” to students, faculty and staff who participated in our National LGBT College Climate Survey.

This past week I had the opportunity to go aboard RSVP Vacations on a trip to Alaska. The majestic scenery of Alaska and the amenities aboard the Westerdam were truly special. However, what I enjoyed most was meeting the people aboard the ship – new friends and old friends. RSVP has a dedicated staff and volunteers who are not only “community minded” but deeply committed to LGBT youth issues. One thing I have always appreciated about RSVP is their commitment to give back to the LGBT community and the importance they place on “building future leaders” in our movement. I know this comes from the very top of the organization with their President Charlie Rounds. Another outstanding person who I adore and have enjoyed getting to know better on the Alaska cruise.5649_1206441314589_1035354916_1484621_6003961_n_0.jpg

Thank you RSVP – and especially our contact Nick Pavlick.The trip was a much-needed vacation and I appreciate all you do for the LGBT community. Campus Pride looks forward to another successful year working together. ALL ABOARD! Learn more -- http://rsvpvacations.com/

GREAT SUCCESS: Campus Pride Camp 2009

CampusPrideCamp2009_0.jpgCampus Pride works so hard every year to put together an awesome camp for LGBT & Ally college students from across the nation. This year (the third year) we had over 50 students in attendance and 20 faculty/student leader volunteers. Plus, we had a dozen student ambassadors from our camp host Towson University. So amazing, so much work! So much FUN!

As you might imagine, I am exhausted from a week of learning, action and friendships. Plus, I forget how uncomfortable a residence hall bed can be for five nights. So for now I am just going to share some pictures below.

Thank you to everyone who made camp possible this year – our stellar volunteers, corporate sponsors, individual donors, faculty, pride leaders, planning team and staff of Towson University – GO CAMP! Learn more online at www.campuspride.org/camp.asp
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Driving for Equality visits Campus Pride at Home

9561969650_ORIG_0.jpegYou know I usually do all the traveling. Seldom do I have someone or a group come visit Campus Pride in our home office of Charlotte, NC. But this week, Campus Pride had the pleasure of hosting Chris and Potter, the two young adults going state by state Driving for Equality (http://www.drivingequality.com).

Both Chris & Potter are really quite amazing. Driving Equality is a 100-day, 16,000-mile, 48-state trek across America to collect stories from LGBTQ people in an effort to raise awareness of the various forms of discrimination faced by our community in each state of the nation. Highlighting the differences in rights, laws, and amendments between the states will shed light on the current social standing of queer individuals today.The goal is to create a dialogue about the disparities across the nation, and what can be done to end discrimination for all.

During the 100-day trip, Chris and Potter meet with LGBTQ community organizers, activists, and any citizens willing to talk. While they were in Charlotte, NC, I organized a meeting with Qnotes, our LGBT Carolina news source and our LGBT Community Center. You can follow Chris and Potter online at the Driving for Equality site (http://www.drivingequality.com). There is actually pics from our visiti and a small video clip sneak peak. Check it out!

The final project, after the 100 days, will culminate with a Driving for Equality documentary.

Well, Campus Pride wishes Chris and Potter safe travels and appreciates them dropping by the Carolinas! You should look up their map and email them if you want to meet up! Campus Pride gave them rainbow cookies for some queer junk food along the way!

THE BUZZ: Two Gay Fraternity Brothers? What's Happening on ABC Family GREEK? Hmmmmm....

abcfamily2.jpgThe Lambda 10 Project for LGBT Fraternity & Sorority Issues (http://www.gaygreeks.org), an educational initiative of Campus Pride, got a sneak peek of some upcoming episodes from the hit dramedy GREEK on ABC Family.

Of course, there is a lot of of drama associated with fraternities and sororites in general. The GREEK television series is nothing short of that either. Regardless, Campus Pride is pleased finally to see out gay characters portrayed within fraternity and sorority life. The characters are diverse, honest and real -- the subject matter is age appropriate for teens as they deal with issues of dating, race, sexuality and gender.

Now, as you will soon see from the clips, GREEK plans to get a little steamy this May. Viewers will be left to see if brotherhood between two openly gay men should be strictly platonic? Or if brotherly love will blossom? It should be interesting to see what happens next and how this impacts the entire brotherhood-- stay tuned GREEK on ABC Family, Mondays 8/7c.

Watch the clips online at Campus Pride -- http://www.campuspride.org/abcfamily.asp

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On The Road: Campus Pride goes to University of Washington

It seems like a whirlwind, but I had a very successful speaking engagement at the University of Washington this Tuesday, May 6. On behalf of the Lambda 10 Project (an educational initiative of Campus Pride), I was asked to speak with the Greek community about LGBT issues.

The day started at 6 a.m. with my flight from Charlotte, NC to Portland, Oregon. Not sure why, but it was a long day of traveling. The campus of UW is two hours away from the Portland (PDX) airport. Well, the day really began at 1:30 p.m. PST when I had lunch with two dozen or so men and women from the UW fraternity and sorority community. The luncheon program was very informal; however, I found the students engaging and sincerely interested in the topic. The group shared a list of a dozen key points and, or educational resources on the topic that they felt were important to their Greek community. We covered many online tools at Lambda10.org and also mentioned our annual OUT & GREEK Leadership Conference (www.lambda10.org/outandgreek) which is the only conference of its kind for LGBT and ally fraternity and sorority leaders.

Later that evening, I spoke to over 750 fraternity and sorority members. The crowd was lively and engaged as was the earlier luncheon. I always ask audience members to text message questoins to my phone while I am talking so I can randomly choose some questions toward the end of the program. I received over 30 which was a good response and the questions ranged from "how to deal with a brother coming out to understanding how one can be religious and accepting gays." None of the questions were out of the ordinary. I think the most telling response was the Panhellenic President who came to me after surprised. She commented that she had never seen this large of an audience that was so "into it" -- basically she expected some behavioral issues (I think) or at least some chatting in the back of the room.

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